Spotify won’t slop playing on startup

[MacMerc]

Please please help! Everytime I start the car, Spotify automatically starts playing. I’ve spoken with Apple and Vodafone and they say it’s a car setting. I’ve just spoken to the Nissan dealership and they said “… they all do it, even our courtesy cars”! 
There must be a fix, this is the only car I’ve ever had that does this, very frustrating. 
Any help appreciated 

TIA